MY HEART, MY HEADSCARF AND ME

Have you ever angried with your friend for wearing a beanie or a hat? Have you ever said that this does not suit you,not to wear it again? It wasn’t mine.

I liked my friend who wore a veil the same way as the one who wore shorts. I never said don’t wear this.Because loving someone means accepting them for who they are. It is just as natural to wear a beret as it is to wear a headscarf in the way of Allah.

When you wear hijab, there will also be those who hug with happiness, those who say nothing and smile from the heart, and those who are surprised..

Your hair will not disappear, you will just cover it. But before you have to admire Allah, who grows the hair and does not grow the eyebrows and eyelashes..

As long as you admire Allah, your interest and love will increase. As your love increases, you will not be able to give up.. You can’t leave. Your heart will beat because you have taken a step for the sake of Allah. You will feel the same way you normally feel, even more free.. Don’t be afraid, you won’t get ugly.

You will not have any fear about leaving the hijab, because every day you spend wearing the hijab for Allah will be written as a reward.

Those who really love you will give a headscarf gift from their favorite colors. There will be those who cry with happiness,those who say may be blessed, those who say may be forever..

There will be those who see you wearing hijab in their dreams before you wearing hijab, they are always the ones who pray anyway.. Those who continue to pray..

There is a different, indescribable peace of the hijab. It was as if you have an army of angels and.Perhaps the share of those who are waiting with longing. If you trust yourself, no words or looks can scare you. The headscarf will be your friend and confidante.

Allah willing, it will be a witness to your faith in the hereafter. Isn’t it worth loving it? So is there a room for a hijab in this heart?

I think if we grow the love of Allah in our hearts instead of thinking about people, there will be no problems.. For example, how can you expect a child when you are pregnant? With peace, with excitement, with love.Let’s buy pink shoes. Should we buy this toy already? If it’s a boy, what about those pinks? ’I’ll wear it” 🙂

Is it not awaited with the same excitement on the day when you will appear before Allah? What I have achieved, what I have not achieved. What would I have lost if I had done my Lord’s will one more time? Besides all the times I have lost, for example, praying for Allah for an hour a day.. Is it difficult to read the Koran for half an hour with all the nonsense I read on social media? Is it worth losing His consent when death is so close?

Let us think and take refuge in Him.. He created us with love. No one can love us as much as He does.. Two worlds of happiness and mercy are at His door. My heart,my hijab and me.. Your heart, your hijab and you.. Allah will host those who take steps for his sake in the rose garden, let’s not forget.

AYŞE NURDAN

AŞİYAN ÇEVİRİ

Masnavi / Rumi

1. Listen to the song of the reed,
How it wails with the pain of separation

2. “Ever since I was taken from my reed bed
My woeful song has caused men and women to weep.

3. I seek out those whose hearts are torn by separation
For only they understand the pain of this longing.

4. Whoever is taken away from his homeland
Yearns for the day he will return.

5. In every gathering, among those who are happy or sad,
I cry with the same lament.

6. Everyone hears according to his own understanding,
None has searched for the secrets within me.

7. My secret is found in my lament‚
But an eye or ear without light cannot know it . . .”

9. The sound of the reed comes from fire, not wind‚
What use is one’s life without this fire?

10. It is the fire of love that brings music to the reed.
It is the ferment of love that gives taste to the wine.

11. The song of the reed soothes the pain of lost love.
Its melody sweeps the veils from the heart.

12. Can there be a poison so bitter or a sugar so sweet
As the song of the reed?

Love in Islam

“O you who have believed, whoever of you should revert from his religion – Allah will bring forth [in place of them] a people He will love and who will love Him [who are] humble toward the believers, powerful against the disbelievers…” (Quran 5: 54). Many people are unaware of the value of Love in Islam. Love is a beautiful emotion that brings joy to the heart. Here are some Quranic verses and hadiths about “Love”.

Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) emphasizes the importance of the love of Allah “O my Rabb! Grant me Your love, the love of those whom You love, and the love of those deeds that will make me earn Your love. And make Your love in my sight dearer than the cold water desired by a person with a raging thirst” ( Al Tirmidhi) . In this subject, a man once asked the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH): “When will the Hour (of the Day of Judgment) be established?” The Prophet replied: “What have you prepared for it?” The man said: “I haven’t prepared for it very much (by way) of prayers or fasting or charitable giving, but I love God and His Apostle.” The Prophet then said: “You will be with those you love.” (Bukhari, Muslim, Tirmidthi)

The first characteristic of believers is that Allah will love them and they will love Allah. “O you who have believed, whoever of you should revert from his religion – Allah will bring forth [in place of them] a people He will love and who will love Him [who are] humble toward the believers, powerful against the disbelievers…” (Quran 5: 54)

Allah will ask on the Day of Judgment: “Where are those who loved each other for the sake of My glory? Today, on a day when there is no shade but Mine, I shall shade them with My shade.” (Muslim). The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) added: “There are people from the servants of God who are neither prophets nor martyrs, (but) the prophets and martyrs will envy them on the Day of Resurrection. They are those who love one another for the spirit of God. . .I swear by God, their faces will glow and they will be (sitting) in (pulpits of) light. They will have no fear (on the day) when the people will have fear, and they will not grieve when the people will grieve.” He then recited the verse: “Behold! Verily for the friends of God, there is no fear, nor shall they grieve.” (Quran, 10:6

The Peace and Allah’s Way

Allah presented endless love ability to human. When we don’t feel the real love, suffer torment as a result of mortal and forbidden loves. The heart was given for love Allah. It doesn’t want to mortal things. For example; job, human, money, enjoyment, home, office etc.

Happiness passion ends by the hell torment. End of mortal loves that cause to forget Allah is disappointment. Everything that takes part of your heart is your god.

When we can’t give an answer to heart with mind, only way is to forget it. If you have mind, love to the real lover who has all of loves.

When you love Allah who creates all of your lovers, Allah will give you whatever you want. Allah protects us by not giving we want mortal things.

You should determine your hopes,happiness,sadness by Allah. Firstly we love Allah then love humans who are created by Allah.

If we feel love of Allah, won’t sad by to humans.

Is Love Before Marriage Acceptable in Islam?

The concept of love in Islam is very unique. When a Muslim loves something or somebody, it must be for the sake of Allah. The same applies to hatred.

Islam teaches us that marriage is the finest, purest and permissible relationship that should exist between a male and female. There is no room in Islam for illicit affairs or the concept of boyfriend and girlfriend. There is no concept of courtship in Islam. There is no dating or living in de facto relationship or trying each other out before committing to each other.

 If the lady you want to marry is religious, of good manners, and obeys Allah and His Messenger, and both of you want to please Allah in this world in order to earn reward in the Hereafter, then you have made a perfect choice.

Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) says:

“Three qualities, if found in a person, will help him have perfect faith: Having Allah and His Messenger as the most beloved ones, loving a person only for the sake of Allah and hating getting back to disbelief the way one hates to be thrown into fire.” (Al-Bukhari and Muslim)

Prophet Muhammad says, “A woman may be married for four things: her wealth, her lineage, her beauty and her commitment to religion. Choose the one who is religious, may your hands be rubbed with dust (Al-Bukhari and Muslim)